Obituaries

Stan passed away peacefully, surrounded by the love of his family, after a brief battle with cancer at the age of 78 years.

He was predeceased by his parents, Mary and Charles Metcalfe, and his father-and mother-in-law, Scotty and Ethel McGillivray. Stan leaves behind his beloved wife of 57 years, Janie; his son, Trent and daughter, Jodie (Evan) Bray. He was a proud grandfather to Cy (Tati) Bray and Ella Bray (Mitchell Lapchuck and his son, Asher), as well as a loving great-grandfather to Bowen and Barrett Bray.

Stan is also survived by his brother Bill (Carole) Metcalfe and his family Greg Metcalfe, Todd Metcalfe, Nancy (Dean) McCann, Chris (Lisa) Metcalfe, and their families; his brother Bob (Onagh) Metcalfe and daughter Kyla Metcalfe, as well as Bonnie McGillivray, Brenda Johnson and her family; and many cherished relatives and dear friends.

Born and raised in Regina, SK Stan attended Connaught Elementary School from 1951 to 1961 and Sheldon Williams from 1961 to 1966. He spent his early years tearing up the streets of the Cathedral neighborhood with his brothers and friends—causing havoc climbing the bell tower of the Holy Rosary Cathedral to ring the bells, playing at the local hockey rink, basketball court, ball diamond, football field, Douglas Park track, or high jump pit.

His passion for sports continued throughout his life. He played basketball for the University of Regina Cougars and the local Senior Men’s League in Regina. He was also a pool shark, a bowler, a choir member, and a musician who loved playing the guitar and singing around campfires at the cabin or anywhere family and friends gathered. In winter, he enjoyed downhill and cross-country skiing, always followed by Irish coffees and a warm fire with music.

Stan was a true handyman, always fixing and puttering around at anyone’s house or cabin. He loved the outdoors—golfing, tennis, hunting big game, shooting gophers, camping, or simply enjoying a quiet moment with a good book in the sunshine. More than anything, he cherished time with his family. He was immensely proud of the life he built and he welcomed all to his home and patio for a visit. The twinkle in his eye, sharp wit, and charming smile were ever present, especially when teasing and making Janie laugh. They were inseparable, always together and there for each other. Despite the challenges of marriage, children, and life, their love was something to be admired.

Anyone who met Stan knew he loved to talk, tell stories, and reminisce. His explanations were never quick—always detailed and thorough. Known by many as “Stan the Man,” the teacher who always had an orange pencil behind his ear, or the guy who wore jeans to work every day, he was a modest and humble man who often kept to himself but had a fierce passion for the things he cared about.

Stan dedicated 38 years to teaching and had an incredible ability to connect with students, especially those who needed someone to believe in them. He impacted many young lives, often working with students others had overlooked.

He was also a true believer in giving back to the sports community, recognizing the opportunities it had given him. The coaches who shaped him, the friendships he made, and the students he mentored were all integral to who he was. He was always one of the dads who stepped up to coach in the North West and Dieppe community, ensuring all children had the chance to participate, regardless of their circumstances.

As a tremendous athlete for Regina Public Schools in the early 1960’s, he set city and provincial records in javelin and high jump. Some knew him as the guy who, while throwing the javelin, would start his approach from the other side of the track, the high jumper with only one shoe, or the player with a wicked hook shot from the top corner of the key. He always did things his own way and never cared what people thought.

Stan was a good man—proud of his roots, devoted to his family, and caring to a fault. His impact on his family, friends, and community will never be forgotten.

He will be dearly missed.

On Saturday, June 7, 2025 there will be a family interment at Cottonwood Church Cemetery, Pense, SK and the family invites you to join and Celebrate Stan’s Life at The Willow, Regina, SK at 3:00 p.m.

The family would like to extend an enormous thank you to the medical staff at the Pasqua Hospital Emergency, the 5D Oncology and the Saskatchewan Health Authority MAID team. The care and love that was shown to Stan and his family during this difficult time was greatly appreciated and admired.